This traditional recipe gets festive feel. Anything thats associated with growing up, be it recipe, memory, read, watch; is nostalgia which in itself is festivity. Simple things like box of needles, colourful threads, soaps, shampoos, cosmetics seen in childhood, those of which I see in neighbourhood shops, super markets in Singapore, is happiness! They get me back to days, incidents I might have forgotten. I realise, I didn't forget, they were hidden in subconscious. I wonder if I could see them around if we stayed in Iceland, Greenland. There are reasons why I consider working, staying in Singapore as one of top choices for expats.
Wherever you stay outside of your own country, you may have to face certain odds. I haven't faced that much. If we don't contribute enough culturally, socially, mingle; instead form ghetto; they would treat us with suspicion, be unfriendly! I meet people, talk, carry in heart if I get impressed!
It's Saturday, 6:30 pm, I feel tired. Post shower, morning prayer, I went to shop for Deepaboli / Deepavali / Diwali / KaliPujo; came back, did cooking. I would share them in social media handles early next week before Bhai Phota / Bhai Duj. Although tired, writing blog, sharing recipes is pleasure. My readers know there is no irritation involved in it. During any festivity, we would be active more. I can see other food bloggers share lot more festive friendly recipes than I do! All activities around feel festive to me.
In foreign lands, if you ain't in festival venue, you don't get feel. But I get, in small things I do; lighting tealight candles, a lamp, decoring my God altar. I cannot decor how I wish, its not always about expenses, I fear fire hazard. We are supposed to light earthen lamp in every room, toilet, kitchen, every corner of our home, today, tomorrow. I would just put few in a safe centre. This is closed flat with less open space. Each year I urge in public, to celebrate safe, be careful. The accidents that happen are saddening!
For Festival of Light, let me contribute this MY STYLE MOULDED COCONUT SWEET! Sweets & Snacks flow in our homes during this festival. This coconut delight is regular in Bengali Homes. Families use semi-solidified milk/khoya kheer to enhance taste, bind together shredded coconut. Willing to make it vegan, gluten-free, I lent extra cooking time to this traditional Bengali Mishti/sweet, "narkol er chachi sandesh"! Anyway, its time consuming recipe. Without using any kind of milk product, it took me more than required time to finish! When my arms pained, Cristine kept stirring.
As usual I miss son. Neither him, nor his father are God Fearing! He hardly speaks, don't know if he would celebrate with friends. Until he settles down with job or business, get someone to wake up together, a mother would naturally feel sadder on special occasions! He enjoyed having whatever special I cooked. Yet, life must go on, I wish my son has few friends to talk to, eat together!
SHREDDED COCONUT : 500 GM
SUGAR : 200 GM
GREEN CARDAMOM POWDER : 1 TSP
PROCEDURE :
Paste shredded coconut in blender in batches, adding little water each time. Transfer to bowl.
Add 160-170 gm sugar to heated wok, add a coffee mug of water.
Cook at low heat to get a sticky syrup, one string consistency.
This would not speed fast process, coconut release water.
Add pasted coconut to sugar syrup.
Keep stirring continuously for 35-40 minutes. Add rest of sugar. Keep stirring until coconut binds well, release oil, drying up water.
Add green cardamom powder, fold in well. Transfer to plate, let cool.
Excess cooking dries coconut mixture, impossible to shape. We need to be careful.
Choose mould of choice, wash, dry, grease with oil. Take out portions, press on mould, sweet is done.
We have to shape them when coconut mix is still warm.

































